Gender is embedded in all environments where people exist. Together, these environments normalize socially and culturally an idea of what it means to be men and a women. They determine what is an appropriate role for men and women to play in a family, in the neighbourhood, in a classroom, at the gym, in the dorm, in the workplace, at a party, etc etc. When all these social contexts push the gender role in the same direction, it becomes difficult to escape and it can feel like an institutional betrayal against those who wish to develop freely as individuals, regardless of gender.